August 26, 2008
Good Moanin' Springfieldians,
"This is ridiculous!"
"How can it cost that much?!"
"Well, I'm just not going to buy pop." (She's still considers herself from Michigan so pop is pop, not soda or sody.)
Those and many (many, I mean, many) others are all comments which Lauren made as I took her down to Nashville, Tennessee last week. She moved down there, and for the first time in her life she's renting her own apartment, having to pay utilities, pay for her Master's program at Trevecca Nazarene University, pay for a broken down car (when you drive a 1993 Ford Tempo that has been driven hard and put a way wet way too many times broken down seems to be the norm), and pay for all those cleaning supplies and groceries.
It was the cleaning supplies and groceries that caused the most rancor comments to come spewing forth. She just could not believe how much to cost it keep a clean apartment and to eat for a week.
All of her whining did my fatherly heart good. I couldn't help but smile as the reality of adulthood ran over Lauren with all the force of a Hummer. For all these years she must have assumed that food just magically appeared in our cupboards and refrigerator. For all of her 22 years she must have assumed the bottle of Windex was our version of the widow's jar of oil that didn't run dry. (See I Kings 17) But now when she was footing the bill it seemed ridiculous to her.
Her most telling comment was, "I'm not ready to be an adult."
Oh, but she was. Perhaps not quite emotionally ready but she was ready she just didn't like the sudden rush of the responsibility rolling over her. She now knew it was up to her. Sink or swim. Do or die.
This is the child who told us, at ten years of age, she no longer needed parents. We had done our job, and according to her, we had been done a fairly good job, but except for the fact that she was too young to get a job, and so she needed us to provide housing and food, she really didn't need parents any longer.
But now 12 years later she was saying, "I'm not ready to be an adult." I felt like the momma bird kicking her baby out of the nest, hoping like mad she was going to be able to fly. Hoping that all that Teri and I had tried to instill in her would hold her steady when the strong storms of life came her way. Hoping that the lessons we not only taught, but hopefully she caught by watching us, would be the anchor she would need when great temptation came her way.
As I drove home my mind drifted back to 22 years ago, and I thought of that Sunday morning when I stood at the altar of the church and Dr. Knight, our District Superintendent, dedicated Lauren to the Lord. And though it seemed like just yesterday when she was this beautiful red headed baby, the reality is - it's today, she's gone, and as I drove down the highway I had to ask myself, "Had I done the job God entrusted to me when He blessed us with a daughter?" Had I done what I promised to do when I stood before the altar of God in that church in Union Lake and promised that I would do everything I could to raise her to know the Lord, to direct her mind to the Holy Scriptures, to protect her from those things and people that could harm her? Had I kept my vow, my promise, my commitment to God? Had I given my daughter the greatest gift a parent can give to their child - a life lived for Jesus?
To the best of our ability, we can answer yes. We did the best we could.
And though Lauren said, "I'm not ready to be an adult", I knew she was ready. It's good to see your children grow up and go on to maturity. It doesn't always "feel" good, but we always know it is definitely good.
If I as a father can say it's good to see my children grow up and go on to maturity, think how much it must please God, our Heavenly Father, when He sees us growing up and becoming spiritually mature. He must smile when He sees us making decisions and choices not based on what we feel in the moment, but based on what it right and based on His Word. His heart must skip a beat when He sees us choosing to sacrifice for the good of another, rather than always focusing on "what's in it for me." We must bring great delight to our Father when He no longer has to deal with us as mere infants, but instead can give us solid food to grow and thrive on.
Remember the desire of God was stated by Peter when he wrote, "Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good." (I Peter 2:2)
Remember the challenge of Scripture is seen in Hebrews 6:1. "Therefore let us leave the elementary teachings about Christ and go on to maturity."
Just as none of us became mature by simply growing older; we learned, we made mistakes, we fell down and got back up, we sought the wisdom of others; none of us become spiritually mature by just hanging around church for a long time. We need to put God's Word into practice in our life.
Are you bringing a smile to your Father because He knows you're ready, you're spiritually mature; you're walking by faith not feelings; and you're equipped to handle the challenge in your life you're facing right now?
Remember, He hasn't driven off and left you in a strange city all alone, like I did Lauren, He's right there with you, and He wants you to respond in the mature way - admit you still need a Father, and then lean on Him.
Are you ready to be an adult?
Did You Know?
Fran Herwehe was in church Sunday, the first time since her knew replacement surgery.
Jenna Berriman brought her mom and big brother to church for the first time. (First time for Jenna!) She is the daughter of Bill and Erin Berriman and granddaughter of Robin and Dave Buchanan.
Ivan Fink had surgery on his broken leg and is recovering at home. Remember him as you pray.
Alleta Britton, at this time, is still in St. John's Hospital. Keep her in your prayers also.
Jim and Kathy Krell leave this week for an Alaskan cruise.
The next Blood Drive is tomorrow, Wednesday, August 27 from 3:00-7:00 p.m. Contact Pat Fowler for an appointment. There is a critical need for O Positive blood in Springfield.
The next Season of Celebration gathering will be Wednesday, September 3rd. Dinner will be from 5:00 6:00 p.m. the menu will Mostaccioli and Garlic Bread, Tossed Salad, and Cake. And then we will have a great time of praise.
Ladies Craft Connection Saturday, September 6th. Bring a craft, a snack to share, and a friend; come to the gym for a girl's night out without kids. (Yahoo!) Come any time between 5:00 11:00 p.m.
All Church Workday Saturday, September 13. Meet at the church at 9:00 a.m. and help spruce up, make small repairs, and clean up the building and grounds. Lunch provided. For more info contact Andy Wubker or Dave Buchanan.
All Church Fellowship right after the morning Worship Gathering on Sunday, September 14th. Light snacks will be served and it is being sponsored by Small Group Ministries. Plan on staying for a few minutes for good conversation; who knows you might start a new friendship.
The Wednesday Night Connection Classes will kick off on Wednesday, September 10. Caravan and Velocity for our kids and teens will begin, and for adults we have a great selection of 6 week classes to choose from:
The Pastors' Prayer Team facilitated by Joan Small. A group of people committed to praying for the pastors of the church and the needs in their lives and for our church. Starting September 10 they will meet from 5:45-6:15 p.m. on Wednesdays.
A Parents' Forum facilitated by Kathy Hedden this group will look at the central focus of parenting the Gospel. We need to direct, not simply the behavior of our children, but also the attitudes of their hearts. They will look at some simple parenting strategies that any parent can carry out. They will also spend a significant amount of time in prayer for their children, and learn how to turn to the Father and place every detail of our child's life in His loving and capable hands.
A Ministry of Encouragement facilitated by Mike and Julie Duncan. This is a ministry that writes notes and contacts new people to our church, those who have been missing church services, and those going through difficult periods of time in their life
Financial Sense Class (10 weeks) facilitated by certified trainers, Tom Hedden, Geoff Sarginson, Larry Hochstetler, or Bob McIntyre. Using the Bible as a guide, this class focuses on learning how to handle finances God's way. Cost is $45 per person, $55 per couple (this covers the cost of the curriculum).
Where is God When? facilitated by Fred Prince. We will explore ways to find God in difficult times. Cost of the book is $8.00.
Self-Defense Class facilitated by Kim Barrington. Basic self-defense techniques will be taught to beginners and more advanced students alike.
"Putting the Pieces Together - Developing a Fully Integrated Biblical Worldview." Facilitated by Andy Peterson. This would be a great class for a new Christian, or the person that has questions about Christianity and why we believe what we believe.
Men's Bible Study facilitated by George Bagley and Jerry Stone. A time of looking at God's Word together, discussion, and the practical application of becoming the men God designed for them to be.
Small Group News: The last training session for all leaders or potential leaders of small groups is this Wednesday, August 27 at 6:15 p.m. Pastor Gregg is facilitating this important ministry.
We are in need of some more volunteers to help staff the nursery both on Sundays and especially on Wednesdays. It may come to the place where we can not offer this important ministry to families if there are not some more volunteers.
This coming Sunday, August 31, our wonderful nursery volunteers are: Patti Young with the infants; and Deb Bowman and Theresa Reeves with the toddlers, and Robert Pittman as the floater. This Wednesday, August 27, the nursery will be staffed by Patti Young and Robert Pittman. Thank you!
Upcoming Events: Season of Celebration Service September 3rd
Coffeehouse Comedy
A bulletin board is being put together to help us remember those from the church or family members who are serving in the military. If you'd like to include someone on this board, contact Debi Adams for the info you will need to supply. You can see the bulletin board above the drinking fountain in the hallway going towards the Family Life Center.
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ADULT MINISTRIES
The Men's Ministry Group has begun meeting on this Wednesday evening at 6:30 p.m. during the summer. All men are invited to attend, and bring a friend for a time of Bible study and fellowship.
CHILDREN MINISTRIES
The Kidz Store (new location the Kidz Kitchenette) will be open 9:30 10:15 a.m. on August 31st.
Upward Basketball sign-up will be on Saturday, October 25.
Caravan registration will be taking place on August 31 and September 7th. Children ages 4 through sixth grade are invited to join Caravan, a Christian based scouting program. Cost is $10 per child. Caravan meets every Wednesday beginning September 10 from 6:15-7"15 p.m. See Director Janice Young for more information.
Kidz Expressway has begun collecting Culver Restaurant "Team Scoopie Points" from children's meals (on the side of the bag). The children would like to earn enough points to acquire several pieces of equipment. You can give your points to Gloria Sanguedolce, drop them at the office, or leave them at the Kidz Check-In area. The children appreciate your efforts to help with their projects. You can also continue to bring ion those "Cans for Kids."
TEEN MINISTRY
Oasis is happening on Wednesdays. Earn those points! Velocity will kick off on September 10th.
PRAYER REQUESTS
- Those listed in Sunday's bulletin
- Ivan Fink
- Alleta Britton
- Lynette Heppe
- JoEllen Van Houten
- Rev. Larry Crum
