November 11, 2008.
Good Moanin' Springfieldians,
True story.
It was a cold November day (kind of like today) but the coldness didn't compare with the coldness Sandra was feeling inside herself. Her life had been so easy up to this point, like a spring breeze, but all that changed when in the fourth month of her second pregnancy, a minor car accident killed her unborn child, and hurled her into the worst storm of her life.
It was Thanksgiving week, and it would have been the week she delivered her son she had so longed for, and she was grieving. If that wasn't enough, her husband's company was talking about transferring him. And then her sister, whose holiday visit she coveted, had just called to say she wasn't going to be able to make it. And then to top it off, Sandra's friend had infuriated her by suggesting her grief was a God-given path to maturity that would allow her to empathize with others who suffer.
"Had she lost a child? No. She has no idea what I'm feeling." Sandra thought to herself.
"Thanksgiving? Thankful for what? For a careless driver whose truck was hardly scratched when he rear-ended her? For an airbag that saved her life, but took that of her child?"
As she walked into the flower shop to get a Thanksgiving arrangement, she was lost in her grief and felt anything but thankful. When the clerk asked her if she was looking for something that conveyed gratitude she really didn't intend to say it but it just came out.
"No! Not exactly, in the last five months everything that could go wrong has. I don't feel so grateful." And the tears began to roll down her cheeks.
Sandra was surprised when Jenny, the clerk, smiled and simply said, "I have the perfect arrangement for you."
Right at that moment another customer walked in and Jenny excused herself and greeted the customer by name and said, "Hi Barbara, let me get your order." She went into the workroom and quickly emerged carrying a massive arrangement of greenery, bows and long-stemmed thorny roses. Except, there were no flowers, they had all been neatly snipped off.
Sandra watched the customer's response and wondered if this was a joke. Who would want rose stems and no roses? She waited for laughter, but there was none. She thought surely she would say something about the absence of the flowers, but she didn't. In fact, she said, "They are exquisite. You'd think after three years of getting the special, I'd not be moved by its significance, but I can feel it right here. My family will love them. Thanks."
Sandra just stared. As the woman left, she finally said, "You didn't give her any flowers."
"Right, I cut them off."
"Why?"
"Oh, that's the special. I call it the Thanksgiving Thorn Bouquet."
"I can't believe anyone would pay for that."
"Well, you want to know why?"
"Absolutely!"
"Three years ago Barbara came into my shop feeling very much the way you feel today. She thought she had very little to be thankful for. She had lost her father to cancer, the family business was failing, her son was into drugs, and she was facing major surgery."
"That same year I had lost my husband. I assumed full responsibility for the shop, and for the first time spent the holidays alone. I had no children, no husband, no family nearby, and too great a debt to let me travel."
And so I chose, I learned, to be thankful for thorns. You see, I'm a Christian and I had always thanked God for the good things in life and I never thought to ask Him why good things happened to me, but when bad stuff hit, did I ever ask! It took time to learn, to believe, that dark times are important. I had always enjoyed the "flowers" of life, but it took thorns to show me the beauty of God's comfort, and love and help.
Sandra then quietly said, "I guess the truth is I don't want comfort. I've lost my baby and I'm angry at God."
Right then another customer came in, and wouldn't you know it, he announced he was there for his twelve long stemmed thorns. As they were handed to him, he smiled a huge smile and said, "Beautiful, my wife will love them."
Sandra couldn't resist asking, and so to a total stranger, she said, "These are for your wife? Why thorns?"
This customer said, "I'm glad you asked. Four years ago my wife and I nearly divorced. After 40 years we were in a real mess, but with the Lord's guidance, we slogged through problem after rotten problem. He rescued our marriage, our love. Last year, at Thanksgiving, I stopped in here for flowers. I must have mentioned surviving the tough process, because Jenny told me that for a long time kept a vase of rose stems stems - as a reminder of what she had learned from thorny times. That was good enough for me. I took home stems. My wife and I decided to label each one for a specific thorny situation and give thanks for what the problem taught us."
He paid for the thorns and as he walked out he said to Sandra, "I highly recommend the special."
Sandra then said to Jenny, "I don't know if I can be thankful for the thorns in my life, they're still too fresh."
And gently Jenny said, "My experience says that thorns make roses more precious. We treasure what God does for us during times of trouble more than any other time."
The tears began to roll again down Sandra's cheeks. For the first time since the accident she began to loosen her grip on the resentment and anger. Through her tears she said, "I think I'll take those twelve long-stemmed thorns, please."
"I hoped you would. I'll have them ready in a minute."
As her thorns were handed to her, she thanked Jenny and gave what she owed.
She said, "Oh, the first year is always on me, just let the Lord heal your heart."
Some of you have been pricked by a thorn in this last year, some of you by many; why not begin to let the Lord heal the hurt? Let Him walk beside you?
Did You Know?????????????????
Bible Trivia: Connect the Three: lost donkeys, a tall man, anointing oil (See answer at the end of e-mail)
The Coffeehouse House Comedy was a great success, as over 350 people attended the two performances. Thank you! Thank you! To all the actors, dessert makers, setter uppers and taker downers and all those who invited friends and family. Who knows how God will use a fun evening like that to draw someone to Himself.
There will be a C.E. Board meeting November 12th at 5:30 in room #106. Grab some dinner and join us.
We will begin receiving our Thanksgiving Offering on Sunday November 23rd. This goes to support our mission and world evangelism efforts around the world. The challenge is once again that each family prayerfully consider a sacrificial offering of $300 for this most important offering.
Prime Time Holiday Dinner is tonight, Tuesday, November 11, at 6:00 p.m. in room #106. The dinner will be catered by Secret Recipes; cost is $10 per person. Music will be provided by Monica Hay. You can reserve your place by contacting Abby Heppe (498-9394) or Delta Harrison (529-2623) or Tricia Hofman (496-2000)
If you want to have your hand in publishing a new Bible America's New International Version the first NIV Bible ever written "one verse, one person" at a time, then go to the Family Christian Store between 1 and 7 p.m. on Wednesday, November 12. This nationwide tour will have more than 31,000 Americans writing the verses out by hand and will then be published by Zondervan. The original will be bound and offered to the Smithsonian Institute.
This Wednesdays' Prayer Gatherings are at 6:15 p.m. Caravan will still be meeting for our children but all other teens and adults will meet in the sanctuary for a time of prayer. Let's become the house of prayer God has called us to be.
Breadline Sunday will be November 23rd. St. John's Breadline feeds thousands of people every year. We have an opportunity to help. This is their only annual fundraiser. There will be loaves of bread available for purchase at $3 per loaf on that Sunday, or you can just contribute to help this important ministry.
Usher and Momentum Security Training will be held on Saturday, November 15, 9:00 a.m. in room #105 and the racquetball court. Contact Tom Hiatt (483-5269) for more information.
Spiritual Leadership for Men- All men are invited to be a part of a Small Group meeting on Thursday evenings from 6:30-7:30 p.m.
Wednesday Night Connection. This week's dinner menu is: Pizza Bread, Tossed Salad, Buttered Corn, and Apple Crisp.
The Annual Turkey Bowl, Saturday November 22. The big football game, for all teens and adults, will begin at 11:00 a.m. There is a list of grocery items in the foyer for our community Thanksgiving Outreach as we make baskets for the less fortunate. My team is winning! Yahoo!
Kidz Express on Wednesday evenings from 6:00 6:15 p.m. will be a time of games and activities before the start of Caravan. Gloria Sanguedolce is planning great times for the kids.
We are in need of some more volunteers to help staff the nursery both on Sundays and especially on Wednesdays. It may come to the place where we can not offer this important ministry to families if there are not some more volunteers.
This coming Sunday, November 19, our wonderful nursery volunteers are: Suzie Jaynes with the infants; Andy/Kelly Peterson and Anna Hiatt with the toddlers, and Katie Azzo as the floater. This Wednesday the nursery will be staffed by Mindy Palmer and Heidi Hochstetler. Thank you!
Upcoming Events:
November 19 Wednesday - All-Church Thanksgiving Dinner
November 22 Saturday Turkey Bowl 11:00 a.m.
November 23 Thanksgiving Offering Breadline Sunday
Keep using GoodSearch.com, we've earned $29.88 for the year 2008. Remember this is a search engine very similar to Google. You just type in goodsearch.com, then put in First Church of the Nazarene, Springfield (Springfield, IL ) where you list the your charity of choice, and then you are able to use it as you would Google or other search engines.
KUDOS AND THANK YOU'S RECEIVED
ADULT MINISTRIES
CHILDREN MINISTRIES
You can still see Rob Young (652-9870) if you're interested in your child being a part of the Upward basketball program. Cost is $60. Practices will begin the week of December 1st and games will begin on Saturday, January 10, 2009.
Children's Christmas Program will be December 14th. Practices will be held during the Children's Church Hour on Sundays November 16, 23 and December 7th. Dress rehearsal will be held December 13th from 9:30-11:00 a.m. in the sanctuary.
TEEN MINISTRY
This coming Friday, November 14th Momentum is on.
Teen Girls' Bible Study meets on Monday evenings at 7:00 p.m., at Sue Bagley's home (327 Osteen, Chatham). All teen girls are invited for the fellowship and Bible study.
Answer to Bible Trivia: King Saul I Samuel 9:3; I Samuel 10:21-23; I Samuel 10:1, 20-24
PRAYER REQUESTS...............
Those listed in Sunday's bulletin
Joe and Julie Maltas family uncle's funeral today
Diana MacGregor having surgery today
Scott Matheis' upcoming surgery
Lynette Heppe
Renee Gallaher's mother
Ty Miller (Nancy Prillaman's grandson)
Elia Krell Jim& Kathi's granddaughter
